SHARING YOUR GIFTS – CHOOSING EXTRACURRICULAR ACTIVITIES

In this era of competitive college admissions, students and their parents are often in a quandary about which activities are “best”.  Many even develop a checklist of all the “right” ones so that they can ensure to check all of the boxes.  Surely, that will boost the chances of admission.  But what if that golden list of activities does not represent any of the student’s interests or highlights aspects of his/her personality?

The possibilities for extracurricular activities are endless. Opportunities to engage beyond the academic are plentiful.  The hard part is choosing which one(s) are a good fit for you based on your interest, time, future goals, etc.  Whether the activity is a school-based club, a community-based nonprofit organization, a competitive athletic team or a part-time job, it’s important that you know why you are willing to invest time through participation.  It is also important to gain something meaningful from the experience. Let’s look at some typical activities.

Academic Teams and Clubs – these clubs/teams show a passion for learning more about a particular subject. They often participate in competitions with similar groups from other schools. Examples include Robotics, Science, Math, Astronomy, Writing, Entrepreneur

The Arts – participation in the arts begins as a hobby or casual pastime for many students. It’s an opportunity to allow one’s creative juices to flow. Excelling in your craft is a way to demonstrate leadership skills – becoming first chair in the orchestra, getting a lead role in the annual theatre production are examples.

Student Government – participation in student government is a great option for students who want to have a voice in school matters. This is a natural way to show leadership skills by representing the interests of the student body. And yes, there’s a role for “quiet leaders” within student government organizations so it’s a great way to step out of one’s comfort zone and develop self-confidence.

Culture Clubs – students interested in promoting diversity, inclusion and acceptance find a home in clubs such as Latino Student Union, Desi, Black Student Union, Vietnamese Student Union, etc.  These clubs serve as a vital “safe-space” on many campus for groups with small populations within the student body.

Part time job – while many may not consider a part-time job as an extracurricular, it really is.  For many students, they may not have the luxury of participating in after-school or extracurricular activities because they must work to help support their families.  Jobs provide opportunities for building skills and it’s important for students to recognize the non-monetary value of work experience.

Other extracurricular activities include:  Internships (paid and unpaid); student newspaper (for writing enthusiasts, although there are other skill sets required to produce print or electronic newspapers); and athletics (school-based or community/league teams).  I’m sure you’re wondering why I haven’t mentioned volunteer work and/or community service.  I saved it for last because it’s often what comes to mind first.  By thinking of some of the activities mentioned above, you might think of community service differently, by considering getting involved in an area in which you already have interest. I like to think of community service as “sharing your gifts” to benefit others. This is a chance to think differently and consider “what can I give” vs. “what’s in it for me.” Connect your interests with opportunities to fill a gap or need.  If you enjoy reading or writing, seek out a local literacy program; perhaps you can share your musical talents at a senior center; teach art at a child care center; help assemble bikes for an organization that gives donated bikes to children; utilize your knowledge of American Sign Language to be an interpreter.  Find organizations that whose mission is aligned with your interests and consider approaching them about starting a program or activity – you’d be surprised at how receptive they are likely to be.  Not only would you get to do something you enjoy, but it would demonstrate how you take initiative, develop an idea and implement it – all very important life skills.

Regardless of the extracurricular activities you choose, the common thread is exploration and action based on your interests.  This perspective does not stop with high school or even college, but should be the guide even into your adult years.  When I reflect on my own high school experience, I played volleyball, sang in the glee club, helped coach the girls’ basketball team and tutored Spanish.  My college years were filled with several Afro-centric organizations like Black Student Union, Black Pre-Business Society, Sisters-in-Stanford, along with work-study jobs at the Career Planning and Placement Center (peer counselor) and the Black Community Services Center (administrative assistant).  Today, I am still involved in multiple organizations and because their missions are aligned with my passions, it is work that feeds my soul – “heart work.”

NEW YEAR, NEW YOU – MOVING FORWARD IN 2018!

Happy New Year! I hope that each of you had a celebratory and restful holiday season, spending quality time with those most dear in our lives.

With the dawn of 2018, the tradition of making resolutions starts anew.  We vow to do better – exercise more, eat more nutritiously, get organized, stop procrastinating, etc., etc.  New beginnings take place for students, too.  As you begin this new year, what commitments are you making to be a better student? A new semester often means new classes, so what actions will you take to make a strong start? Your college applications are submitted – how will you stay focused and keep senioritis from creeping onto your radar? Summer seems so far away, yet applications for summer enrichment programs will be due soon – will you be ready?

The new year is also a time for reflection, a look back before charging ahead on a new journey. This time is very important, and it’s always a good approach to start and end with the high points.  What classes went exceptionally well? What did I accomplish that surprised even myself? What honors or recognition did I receive to add to my resume? If I could wipe the slate clean for my pre-calculus class, what would I do differently? I think if I started preparing for my US History exams sooner, I would have really learned the material better and earned a higher grade. Perhaps forming a study group for AP chemistry would have helped me.

Focus your energy on this new start – consider it a reboot, a refresh. As you set new goals, be realistic so that you have an opportunity to be successful.  Include short- and longer-term goals, as achieving milestones along the journey is key to staying motivated.  Think beyond your academic settings when it comes to establishing goals—remember you are a multi-dimensional being!  Here are a few things for every age group to consider:

Middle school students – Some of you will be preparing to transition to high school. The standardized tests you will take this Spring will determine course placement, so take them seriously. Look for leadership roles in Scouts, on athletic teams. Begin thinking about how you can serve your community, sharing your talents and interests.

High school students – A new semester often means new courses; think of strategies to have a strong start. Standardized testing is important for you, too; it’s a good idea to develop a test plan that includes formal preparation if necessary. Identify summer enrichment programs that will provide exposure to academic and career areas of interest. Find community service projects that speak to your heart not your college application!)– there are many needs in our surrounding communities. Go visit colleges so you begin to get a sense of the wide variety of institutions across the U.S. And if you are a high school junior, now is the time to step up your game and prepare for the college application process that will be here in the blink of an eye!

College students – You, too, will start new courses and getting a good start applies to you as well. You will begin seeking out, applying to and interviewing for internships, research opportunities, and/or summer employment. Perhaps there are changes on the horizon for your housing arrangement – a move off campus or selection of new roommates. The ‘newness’ of your first semester at college is over so now you are ready to settle down and put academics first.

It wouldn’t be fair to ask you to think about starting fresh without sharing some of my own resolutions for the new year. Professional development will be a focus for me in 2018. There is always so much to learn in order to better support students and families. I am excited about conferences, counselor college tours and information exchanges with colleagues to ensure that I have the knowledge and resources necessary. I look forward to continuing my passion for giving back by leveraging opportunities to share knowledge with students and families who need support but may not have the financial means to secure additional services.  That is my “heart-work” and I honor this commitment annually.

Let’s get this journey through 2018 started!  Good luck, and remember The Journey Begins with You…

Antoinette Battiste is an Independent Educational Consultant and 20+ year resident of Evergreen.   She is an active volunteer with many community organizations in Silicon Valley, including Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Santa Clara County Alliance of Black Educators, Silicon Valley Black Chamber of Commerce the African American Community Services Agency, and the Northern California Association of Morehouse Parents.